Like most of us , most of the time , we keep our sanity and sense of reality and perspectives , by directing our attention to the tasks we occupy ourselves with , to the daily routine of doing things , we like to keep always busy , or so we say .
We believe , nonetheless , that an occasional escapade is vital if a person is to achieve any degree of integrity or authenticity , and avoid living as an outsider or a voyeur . Like everyone else , some of the time , we must pretend and play at being what we are , because we cannot simply be what we truly are all the time .
What most of us really fear , hate and avoid are our desires , even if by doing so we recognize and affirm that we have them , so we turn to our diversions , it is one thing to read some good books , write authentic articles and blogs , and feel good about ourselves , another thing altogether to achieve authenticity in real life .
Authenticity is not a temporary state that a person chooses to establish at any chosen particular time , but rather a permanent stable way of existence that we must constantly maintain by continually choosing authentic responses to any situation .
We all strive for patterns of behavior , writings and readings , that we might adopt , to bring about positive changes , authentic attitudes in our relations with ourselves , the world and other people .
We try to avoid being objects in the world of others , to be for others , or be in danger of being judged by others , people nowadays are seldom if ever truly alone , especially these days with the world clearly becoming over populated , each of us is constantly facing and being subjected to the existence of other people .
Thanks for putting up with some of my phobic words and ideas . Salamat.
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